Fridays are now officially my worst day, so after it's over, the weekend seems ok.

Last Friday got up and started the now usual habit of contacting bank etc that I can't do during the rest of the week.

Because scumbag cancelled the direct debits, I have had to pay this months mortgage over the phone. So, rang up, gave my debit card no-the nice lady told me the bank wouldn't allow the transaction to go ahead, and that I had to phone the bank.

Rang the bank-nice lady there told me there was no problem with my card-mortgage provider hadn't even requested a transaction!!! Whilst on to the bank,

Well I knew it wouldn't last, but it was great to feel happy and at peace with the world for 6 days!

Scumbag texted me at work yesterday afternoon, to tell me he had been round to our house to remove the belongings we had dumped in the shed. I was annoyed that he hadn't given me forewarning-and told him so.

He then texted back saying that I hadn't replied to his previous text-unsure which he meant as I haven't heard from him since last thurs. Plus if I wasn't prepared to offer £18k for the house contents he was going to approach his sol about a legal claim on my future earnings and assets!!

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today i am angry and upset

after being left after 22 years of marriage the husband who wont even speak to me or tell me why he left wants to put money into my bank account to clear his debts .

Debts in his name only that i only recently found out about with no name companies

he thinks i am stupid he does not want these people or me to know were he is but wants to keep the debt at my address i despair

his contact was a three line email well he can get lost

i am still struggling with why he left i believe there is another woman

i dont think he wants her to know about this money well tough