Well thought I'd hit the keyboard again tonight. Saw solicitor today and seems I should get a Separation Order soon rather than later. Also suggested documenting what has taken place in the last 2 years - I'll take some pleasure in that!!

I need to try and find the right moment to find out exactly what my wife wants when we split. I am a bit aprehensive since I am certain it will start off much ill feeling - doesn't money cause so many problems.

Anyway - I'll try and do this over the next few weeks or so and see where it takes me. I don't mind leaving the house  eventually but the only thing I

I want to share this with everyone who feels that debt is taking over their lives that they feel they are going to loose everything including FMH.

A debt counsellor paid me a visit he was linked to my mortgage company who want to repossess. After an hr of heart rendering chat my bills have been reduced Im keeping my house for sure. Alot of stuff my sol said wasnt bad advice but not the best and as he pointed out they are not debt expects. He wrote down everything I had to say to sol and to all companies. I  thought Id done everything right but I wasnt thinking straight after all,  So a chat

Scumbag hasn't responded to my email re clarifying his demands.

I cancelled my sols appt for yesterday. It sickened me to write a further cheque for £830 for the last couple of months services from my sol. I know I was horrified at the last bill for £1600-I didn't think he had done much to get that-he has done virtually nothing to get this lot. I certainly didn't intend him to get another£190 +VAT for sweet FA.

I had been hoping to buy a new suite, but I hope the sol buys himself something nice with my hard earned cash instead!!! Apparently the water co. rang today, offering to come and fit my