It has taken me a while to find out how to blog but I think I may have found the correct button?

 So much has happened in this last week or so, I think my head will explode.  This divorce is a steep learning curve.

 As you may have seen from my messages my STBX came along last week and took away a very substantial company asset.  There was nothing I could do, at least not legally, I just had to take photos of what was happening for evidence (though quite what use will be made of them I have no idea).  Anyway I did the decent thing, remained calm and wrote to the ex asking the whereabouts of the

Started off good, met friend and caught up this morning while getting daily paper, only to be disturbed by s2bx driving past me on way home, he had just dropped clothes in our house that son had left from the wekend, but still I thought good..I missed that one.. he had a face like thunder so and so miserable.. I had to give him a cheery wave.LOL

So after my gas man had been , decided to treat myself as I needed a lift, so spent 2 hours getting my hair done. Ho hum all glamourous and no one to appreciate me but myself hey.

Got home, and shorty after recieved a call.He has not paid the gas

The solicitors we work with often ask us when is the best time to refer their clients? We always encourage them to get their clients to speak to us as early as possible.

Of all of the divorce cases we have worked on, from a financial and pension planning perspective, those that we are able to have the biggest impact on are those where we have become involved before major financial decisions have been made.

Our expertise is often called in once major decisions have been made.

For example, earlier this year we were approached for advice once the pension sharing order had already been made.