The day before HER weekly visit, I get a letter from my bank.  The four-weekly maintenance cheque she gave me has been returned unpaid and they are writing to let me know they are "re-presenting the cheque".

No sweat, I can wait.  It's not like her payment is anything life changing.  Ten pounds per child, per week (that's for each child under eighteen years old - doesn't take into consideration the eldest for whom she doesn't pay, or the second eldest that she will not be paying for, come November). 

Strangely my bank balance is at a better situation than in all the time I was married to her -

Sell house, play fair, move on, blah blah blah.

Now I get a notice from land registry saying 1 of HIS creditors have put a 'restriction against the land'. I have no bloody idea what it means. It says it only affects his share. We just agreed to sell to clear existing mortgage & get away from the whole sorry mes, but the consent order is not court approved yet.

I hate not understanding stuff.

hi wikis

this is for those of you that believe you can have an amicable divorce.......YOU CANT!!!!!!!

i will briefly outline where i am some of you know but here goes....my ex is buying me out of the house of which she is doing in two halfs

remortgaging for half and a daddy loan for the other ...no probs there except i found out this morning that half of the daddy loan she has SPENT!!!!!!!!

now i have been very fair not wanting what i could have and settled with half of the equity only!!to try and stop all the hate and bitterness that goes along with this process but no that obviously was'nt