Started off good, met friend and caught up this morning while getting daily paper, only to be disturbed by s2bx driving past me on way home, he had just dropped clothes in our house that son had left from the wekend, but still I thought good..I missed that one.. he had a face like thunder so and so miserable.. I had to give him a cheery wave.LOL

So after my gas man had been , decided to treat myself as I needed a lift, so spent 2 hours getting my hair done. Ho hum all glamourous and no one to appreciate me but myself hey.

Got home, and shorty after recieved a call.He has not paid the gas

The solicitors we work with often ask us when is the best time to refer their clients? We always encourage them to get their clients to speak to us as early as possible.

Of all of the divorce cases we have worked on, from a financial and pension planning perspective, those that we are able to have the biggest impact on are those where we have become involved before major financial decisions have been made.

Our expertise is often called in once major decisions have been made.

For example, earlier this year we were approached for advice once the pension sharing order had already been made.

I am so angry and need to rant.  I got home shortly after lunch to find an unexpected letter from the Court - the b****ard ex is sueing me for maintenance - he wants a lump sum and monthly payments.  It wasn't enough that he lied to me from the first day we met; married me under false pretences; bullied me for the length of our marriage; tried to turn my family against me; and is currently feeding rumours in my workplace that I am the evil party here.  Note - I divorced him for HIS unreasonable behaviour and he didn't contest it.  Now he wants all my money.  Not that there's a lot, but