Hello all my wiki friends

 what would i do if you lot was not here? what would i do if i could not come here, get some advice, support and guidance.

I need your guidance now, i basically dont know what im doing, sounds stupid at 49 with 2 kids, but i dont! i dont really even know where to start i just feel so alone, so sad and im still crying since i found out about my husband's affair in December what is wrong with me why cant i seem to make decisions for myself?  For the first time in my life i really do not know what to do for the best.

Basically what has happened is that as some of you

In June, I blogged this article about  Mr Justice Coleridge, a Family Division judge, he is a very influential Judge and he was addressing the Solicitors Family Law Association(Resolution) in April of 2008.
I have tried everywhere to get his e mail address and I have searched the internet for linkage. I would have thought that a whole load of legal costs could be saved if he were to look at the evidence that I have posted and give a bit direction.
So if you mix in those circles can you bring it to his attention please.