Well, the result was not good as some of you may have gathered.

The Judge said that he was unsure as to why I had applied to extend the Non-Mol Undertakings. He said my statement seemed to refer to Contact and Finances as opposed to issues relating to Non-Molestation.

He couldn't see that my ex uses these opportunities, as well as times when he needs no contact with me, to intimidate me. He couldn't see that texts sent for no reason with no content pertaining to the children where intimidating me.

He ignored the fact that for the duration of the Undertakings my ex had ignored the content and

This is what I wrote while waiting to go into court as I needed something to occupy my mind and make me feel strong. Writing a blog to share with my wiki friends is what I wrote.

 Will blog the outcome seperately, just wanted to share my thoughts with you.

 "Arrived at the court, no clerk, just a waiting room with the ex and his fiancee sat there. I could feel the eyes, 2 pairs of eyes staring at me. I could hear the whispers between them. There is nothing more I can do but sit and wait. So I sit and write my blog.

The clerk has arrived; we are the only case in court this afternoon so hopefully

I can't get over how little it takes, to make me struggle to get through a day.

I found out today, that scumbag is now asking his sol whether he can put our house on the market, or buy it himself-which is what he said was his original intention 6mths ago!!!

He is obviously struggling for money, and the reason I haven't started the ball rolling for buying him out, is because as yet, I don't know how much mortgage I will need because the stupid man won't agree to a settlement. He is clearly not able to comprehend that his ar*ing around is what is holding progress up.

He is referring to me as his