Have been told she expectes me to move out and leave the children having made the petition.

So, as for much of the last 10 years I have spent another weekend with the children while she does what she wants elsewhere. I am not unhappy about this at all, although I feel pretty tire, but I find it horrendous that she can now think that she can have the house and the children, push me out and expect me to continue paying for it all.

I am off to the sols next week when I will be giving intructions that I think may start world war 3, but hey she is the one that made it clear that it will only be

Well for those that dont know my situation!..i,ll explain a bit of it..

I,ve been fighting custody and visitation court battles for 3 years..the first year my x and the last 2 years my in laws..The judge said if there was no contact with his side of the family...he was scared for my safety..i said i was not willing to sacrafise my children for it....

So we went thro court battles and the judge keept ordering me to take the kids to see them..but the kids have always said they did,nt want to go...so i did,nt take them and i ended up on a 3 month suspended sentance..whitch we took to the court of

If you're thinking of doing your own divorce just to save money then I'd suggest you think again.

You should be aware that the divorce ultimately need not cost you anything. You can recover your costs from either the respondent or co-respondent or both. In my own case I have just received my costs from my stbx's new partner much to their annoyance. I asked and I got.

You also need to appreciate that the forms need to be filled in with some "legalese", so if you find form filling difficult this may not be for you. Fortunately, I'm used to form filling as it comes with my profession.

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