Well, the answer to my problems may be here.
Spoke to the mortgage company and he is ten months in arrears. My credit rating's smashed to pieces, but I don't care. If he misses December's payment, they will repossess the house and my name will be off the mortgage. I won't need to go to court and I can just get my decree absolute. That'll teach the non communicative and violent bast8rd.
Please put your hands together and pray that by 1pm tomorrow, he hasn't made the payment........
Happy New Year my friends