Just trying to sort some stuff out in my head as feel going round and round in a circle.      In the space of 10 weeks i have came from having a happy (thought so) secure family life to now being faced with my home being sold and 9 year old daughter and i having to find somewhere else to live and not knowing if we will have enough money.

Really need to get a lawyer involved here, been to see 1 but was not sure so will when needed find another.   I work part time and earn about 9k a year, my husband about 80k -  I cant get my full time hours back at work if i could things would be bit better, I

I don't know if my husband will come back. It doesn't look like it at the moment but I can't believe that the man I have known inside-out for 11 years would walk out on his family when they need him most. But I have to be prepared for him not coming back as that's what he's telling me right now.

 So  yesterday I went to see a solicitor. He was rubbish - certainly won't use him for a divorce battle! (I wanted someone who would be outraged on my behalf!!) - but he did give me peace of mind over certain matters. I'd get to stay at home with the children, I get to say when he can see them, he

Hi all hope everyone is feeling ok

Got decree nisi today in writing with incorrect date of births ! Either someone cant type or he cant remember mmm no prizes for which one I think. Just the messy finances to sort and the last wait for him to apply for absolute. Sol reckons we get my application ready to send ha ha think he to has sussed out his levelof urgency. strange thing is I dont really give one about the marriage being over its the money! I can hear lots of groans especially from the men.

If I could say one thingto him now it would be RESPONSIBILITY the children should never suffer as a