Well, I have still been smarting from scumbags comments that in his opinion I had to question why I had spent so much time visiting my son whilst in hospital.

 Anyway, I spoke to my elder son last night, who told me in his opinion, his dad was talking out of his ar*e. He said, speaking as younger sons brother, and as a male, he said he felt that younger son would have wanted me there, to support him and ask questions. He said if he was in hospital, he would want me to do exactly the same for him, and he is 23!!! My daughter thinks scumbag was jealous.

His comments hurt though.

Got a letter from

Is this another stage, I wonder? After seven months apart, and I must say I have not missed him or all the arguments, he is not communicating at all. This has been eleven days now. We argued on the phone, the first spoken conversation we have had for some time. I am supposed to sign some mortgage refinancing documents. He should be supporting me, financially, and has refused. I am not trying to be awkward, I just find it very hard to trust him. I need legal advice; that costs money, because I want my solicitor to be aware of what's going on, and I am paying her by the hour after my

Hi all

Just a brief one today, been a hell of a day, PANTS to be exact.

Got letter fron his sol having nerve to ask me to put back the money I had taken out of the joint account by tomorr or they will freeze all accounts. Never mind the fact that I took exeactly half, to protect some of it when I discovered he still spending like water on e-bay and did not want to discover debts of 70k again and nearly lose house again.Plus he now decided only gonna give me half mortgage and nothing else monthly, leaving me short by about £500 a month and him with £700+ floating around spare, not even taking