She has lost her job and is lying around the house doing nothing.  Drinking is a major activity and now smoking in the house (previously this has been an outdoor activity).  The house is only clean because the cleaner comes in for 3 hours a week, she has a pile of washing waiting to be ironed that has grown for a month - she does nothing.

When I ask her what she is planning to do I'm told it is non of my business.  She then asks what I am planning to do so I say I will be working to pay for everything to which her reply is 'Well it's going to cost you even more now'.  She is being quite

I don't know if my husband will come back. It doesn't look like it at the moment but I can't believe that the man I have known inside-out for 11 years would walk out on his family when they need him most. But I have to be prepared for him not coming back as that's what he's telling me right now.

 So  yesterday I went to see a solicitor. He was rubbish - certainly won't use him for a divorce battle! (I wanted someone who would be outraged on my behalf!!) - but he did give me peace of mind over certain matters. I'd get to stay at home with the children, I get to say when he can see them, he

Hi all hope everyone is feeling ok

Got decree nisi today in writing with incorrect date of births ! Either someone cant type or he cant remember mmm no prizes for which one I think. Just the messy finances to sort and the last wait for him to apply for absolute. Sol reckons we get my application ready to send ha ha think he to has sussed out his levelof urgency. strange thing is I dont really give one about the marriage being over its the money! I can hear lots of groans especially from the men.

If I could say one thingto him now it would be RESPONSIBILITY the children should never suffer as a