Been a while since I have been online and I guess it is time for an update - if nothing else to get my head talking and trying to oust the demons that seem to reside there...

Does it ever get any better?  Only time and tide will tell.

Anyway the impressive ultimatum that I gave of "you have until 5pm to decide" on the court costs worked a treat.

As expected I received nothing in return, not even a mouldy piece of bread.  I know all readers in wiki land knew it would land like that!

Trouble with me is that I believe that people are naturally fair and honest.  I know wake up... Especially in light

JP’s Justice of the peace are now to be trained to hear domestic violence cases in Luton , a cheesy photograph of Mr G a clerk to the court who is writing a paper , well Mr G you will have to get up to speed or listen to the service user what they have to say about they system .This is all a little to little, and a little bit late for many women living in the UK who have lost custody battles to violent men. I am going to have to flit back to the diaries,and then  forward to where we are today .So please bear with me .In 2004 the rights of an abusive man in this case are given precedence

Well, the result was not good as some of you may have gathered.

The Judge said that he was unsure as to why I had applied to extend the Non-Mol Undertakings. He said my statement seemed to refer to Contact and Finances as opposed to issues relating to Non-Molestation.

He couldn't see that my ex uses these opportunities, as well as times when he needs no contact with me, to intimidate me. He couldn't see that texts sent for no reason with no content pertaining to the children where intimidating me.

He ignored the fact that for the duration of the Undertakings my ex had ignored the content and