I have the Nisi in and appear to be getting stuffed everywhere - not too pleasant....

Due to my circumstances I am considering trying to delay the process, if I need to be obstructive then if it works what the hell.

So advice is greatly appreciated.

I have 2 kids 11 and 13, I work in Holland mon to friday and we have house, pensions etc.

The question is that if I need to take the gloves off how do I make it as protracted as possible.  Forget the money at the moment it s about understanding options.

I hope that wiki peeps can give me some

OK,

Pointless mixing the issues.  Am like many of us going through a bitter divorce and stbx seems to be getting it all her own way.

I live in Holland mid week and only get to see the kids at weekends.  Now stbx wants me to stop coming home until the divorce is final.  So Christmas I need of stay away, my parents live 5 hours away and it is really not suitable.

As a man it seems hat I have little or no rights - at least it feels like it.

Can she stop me coming home at weekends.  At the moment I live on the top floor and do not interact a great deal with her. 

 Really want to maintain contact with

Anyway I was determined that nothing would prevent me completing my tasks in town 1. 09:00, Solicitors, 2. Get shopping done

Besides, a few haven't I all ready said raindrops never hurt anyone, heheh.

And so I had began my journey, hoping that the heavy grey clouds overhead would magically disappear. Realistically though, I would have accepted a