Well, I have started divorce proceedings. I had hoped to avoid this for so long but really it was always inevitable. I don't feel too bad now as I am well into recovery but it is still very sad:(

I haven't told her yet as I want to wait until I lodge the papers at the court. But it should be pretty simple as we have already agreed all the financial arrangements. Neverthless, I am expecting a pretty bad month as she can be unpredictable and is (and always has been) a truly expert liar.

Simple yes. Easy? No!

Andy

Those following this blog will know I am pushing hard for equal residence for our children.  This is not easy on any of us, made worse by still all living in the same house.  Thats another story but has got to be addressed as soon as possible.  It's now almost intollerable and certainly not good for the children.  Roll on 24th when we have the first hearing.

Cafcass are interviewing the children this week.  stbx is pretty unhappy about this.  cannot accept them being brought into the whole thing but frankly what did she expect when saying she wanted it all decided by a judge.  I really don't

hi  all, hope everyones recoveredfrom the weekend .?......lol

another step today ,quite  a major one actually ive  effectively signed the family home away to the ex !!!!!!!!..........the paperwork is the hands of my sol so thats it no more house for me !!

i felt quite sad while sitting in the sols office reading the documents all in black and white in front of me ......this is final this is  final i kept saying to myself !the truth being i think im only gutted for the amount of work ive put in over the years

at least i know my daughter has some where warm and comfortable to carry on growing up