Hi my name is Kev

On the 15th august 2005 roughly 2 weeks after my wife came back from a holiday in turkey with her sister.She said to me in bed I do not love you any more it's over.I left the marital bedroom and set up in a room at the front of the house, which we used as sort of study.I stayed in that room for 2 years supporting my 2 kids, at the time my daughter of 17 and my son of 13.

I paid for everything while my wife remained in the house and in the bedroom while I roughed it in the old study room.I found out she had been seeing someone  and that he's girlfriend had tried to run my wife

Hi everyone,

I am feeling so confused and drained the last couple of weeks have been a nightmare for me - i just dont know what to do anymore my husband is insisting that he loves me and kids and wants to come home and i try desparately to make sense of everything that has happened but i just cant.   I mean why have an affair if you love your wife - is that even possible?    How can you be caught out three times having an affair with the same woman after your wife has given you two chances and then say you love your wife and want to come back?  Im sorry but i cannot understand it.

My husband

so my wife says she wants a change, a new life and it doesnt invole me..

total bombshell didnt see that one coming ,,,,,,,then befor we could sit down and talk things thro she tells our 11 year old that we are getting divorced. he rang me in tears and told me what his mum has told him, and i just wanted to end it there.... i couldnt face her and sat in a layby trying to think of what to do... at the time i thought i was to blame i was the one who had done wrong,, i thought of ending it right there. but i couldnt leave my son behind like that... the next few days where a blur, i went home from