Hi everyone,

Just another blog from little old me, well it did'nt last long him being here he came round Friday and i could'nt bear the sight of him, not after having my mum and sister here the night before after looking at a home for her.

The long and short of it was that he came in asked how it all went last night and i blew up like a rocket!!! he asked her to come and live with us, he said he would look after her, he caused big arguments with myself and my sisters 2 years ago (i might add that that this time he knew his mistress she lived down the road he was going up there he says just

Hi

I'm new too all this.  Having a really bad time.  My husband left 4 weeks ago after I had asked him to leave 4 months ago.  I had tried so hard to make it work but with his compulsive gambling, drinking and realationship with girl young enough to be his daughter I had had enough.

When he finally left it was without a word to me or his children (22 and 17).  He moved all his money into a new account and has left me penniless, trying to a pay the huge mortgage and bills.  I am on my knees both emotionally and financially.  I know I asked him to go so why does it hurt so much!!

 He will not

Do you know, this is the 1st time I have looked forward to the weekend, in-God, I can't remember!!!! It's only taken 6 1/2 months!!!

The further I get from the events of last Sunday, the better I feel.

Monday was a real sh*t day-I looked and felt dreadful-probably on par with the beginning of Feb when all this kicked off. I honestly haven't a clue how I got through the day at work, but as usual, I did.

I rang my sol and told him about scumbags behaviour-he will write to his sol, and say that it must not happen again, or we will apply for an restraining order-I'm sure it won't come to that, but I