Just read the replies to my blog and want to say thank you so much it is actually  heartwarming to have people tell me that they understand and know how I feel I guess it's those that don't understand that scare me with their advice. Yes I will take time (although biffy's head says I've had more than enough of that since my marriage ended) and I know it's not right to base my happiness on another but I can't help how much I love and I do know what I want and that is to share my love and life with someone always. I have to be right myself (is what others tell me) but hey this is who I am and I

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my ex form e arrived at the solicitors today!! waiting with baited breathe to read it and am afraid how im going to feel and afraid im going to go balisitic if hes lied!! Supported his career for 27years and now hes reached the top dumped for a younger model! he earns 2.5 times more than i do! ive worked full time for most of my married life and was looking forward to retiral! not now will be working till i drop! its so unfair! he is cohabiting with his new dame who,is also a big earner! I\s there hope for me?

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Hi, need advice.

My feelings are at their wits end. The other evening my husband leaned down to give me a kiss (by the way we still live in the same house not the same b/rooms) I backed off wondering  what's this all about.

Not sure if he wants me for me or is he  missing the intimacy. He did not say anything the next day, he never talks about problems it is either run away or ignore it might go away. Other wise still politeness still goes on in this house with alot of silence in between.

Why won't he  talk about what goes on in side. Twice in 2 years he has told me that he no longer loves me.