how  can  anyone  say  they  cant  afford  to  / wont support  their children and live  in  a 12 bed mansion???  apparently  stbx  doesnt  have to pay  anything  for his  3 kids  ...apparently  he  doesnt  earn anything ... funny that  .. how does  he  eat??? how  can he  afford  60 fags  a  day?? how come  he  can  afford  to  go to the pub  and eat  takeaways  ...??? how come  he  can  afford  a  consultant / hired help ./ accountant  etc  etc  ... mmmmm , .... answers  on  a  postcard  please  .. forward  to  the solicter  who im seeing  tomorrow  and   pray they can sort  out mr  liar 

Sorry to everyone about Saturday - I had intended to come to Windsor for an  hour with the boys in tow but it was a lovely day. So we took a picnic to the park/woods and went on a dinosaur hunt.  We emerged, several hours later, with our pockets full of 'hedgehogs' (conkers with their jackets on!) and the boys filthy dirty from making a squirrel house and tree climbing. 

I realised that day that no longer was something - or someone - missing from our lives.  We have adjusted as a small family and are getting on fine together.   We have survived.  Now we are getting on with living.

The initial

Well, where do I start? I am new to all this and have had it recommended to me. It looks really great being able to get thoughts and woes down on paper so to speak. You see, I am in what seems like a strange predicament. I have a daughter who is 9 years old. I left her mum when she was 3 months pregnant but I supported her all the way through and have always kept contact with my daughter and paid the obligatory out dated CSA assesments without question outwith the piss taking....I have done it by the book...Thats that part of it...More to come.

I am now separated since 9th June this year -