well, i am not afraid to admit that i had huge issues dealing with my wifes affair with one of my best mates. It certainly makes you feel like a failure both in your marriage and in that friendship, however i would urge anyone who gets the opportunity to attend counselling sessions , and i know some people have to be far stronger and have to dig deeper for that stregnth if they dont get that opportunity and my hat goes off to them.what ever methods we take none of us are failures, infact we are more of a sucess than we believe and we will be successful in turning the situation around. The

He didnt come round last night - text me to say he was too upset and felt ill. I text back could we make it another night but no reply. Got an appointment at Relate on Monday so I have written him a note asking if he would come along with me. There are still some things I need to tell him and once he has heard those if he still says no then there isnothing I can do to change his mind so I have promised him I will never contact him again.

Asked if he could let me know so I can tell Relate if he is coming but so far no reply.

I am going to make an appointment with Doctor tomorrow I feel so

There won't be many relationships here at wiki free from hurtful and cruel things that one side does to another and if I made a list of all the unkind words, thoughtless choices, and many other hurtful things my ex has done to me in the past, it could stretch for miles.

Just going to what is hopefully my final counselling session so am reading through some notes and thoughts that have occurred to me during these sessions which started I am surprised to see as long ago as August 2007. I will share a few things with you now.

When I think of the way I've reacted to all the stuff thrown at