Virgin Blogger so please excuse me if this doesn't come across as I intended it to. I suspect this tale of woe (or similar)  has been written many times but I wondered if I could get any answers and help here, as I am falling apart.

My first wife left me after 22 years of marriage for a younger man, who's wife was in hospital giving birth to their second child at the time, can't get much lower than that in my opinion. At the time we had 14 year old twin boys and a 17 year old daughter. I was devastated at the time.

I have been with my second wife for over thirteen years and married for 3, she

..... ok really starting to work myself up now... so much for the insomnia not returning.  The patterns are back, crashing on the sofa between 8-9pm and then waking up at 4am with everything whizzing round my head.  I have the note pad by the bed, a good book, and even my iPod, but they are really not helping.

 The only way I can describe it is that I have the good voice and the bad voice inside my head.  the good voice is being reasonable, ie take each day as it comes, everything will be fine etc etc, but the bad voice just completely knocks this into touch and the arguments make me elieve

As some of you know my stbx has had a proposal sitting with her since May, yes I know not a long time compaired to others on here but it's seemed a lot longer.

Anyway she has finally replied, and once I stopped laughing / crying I am still no further forward. She is claiming that the house has lost £15K in the last 2 months which is strange as all the others around us have only lost between £2 - 4K, she wants everything in the house, the car I bought, oh and she also want 150% of the CSA payments that she is due and this to be signed over in a consent form,  ahhhhhhh

Well haven't replied yet as