wasnt busy at work today, so my mind started wandering... what sort of message has IT given to ITS kids ? ITS girl, 18, ITS boy 21, they both met OW while IT was still living with me, the daughter lived with us, already met her in october, the son visited us, already met her in november. and the mother, she knew what was going on in october, IT eventually left me 2 weeks before xmas. what chance will they have in the future if IT sets examples like that ? they now think it is fine to treat any one like a piece of s..t. my son on the other hand, has seen the complete and utter dispair this

Hi this is my first blog as I am new to this site. I am thinking of divorcing my husband, we have been apart for over a year. The reason he left is due to his family refusing to see our kids unless its all on their terms as they dont want any contact with me. I would like them to be civil to me for the kids sakes. they have never seen my 9mth old baby or my son for 9months. I have never refused them contact but they say i am refusing them contact.

Yesterday our beautiful dog was re-homed and have not stopped crying since! It's only 8am and I'm already dreading the school pick up knowing that my boys will be devastated when they come home. Will they hate me forever? Angry that yet again, I am having to make another overwhelming sacrifice whilst ex continues to have the life he apparently dreamed of and as he repeatedly tells me "has never been happier"! Dreading the weekend without my boys and now no pup to take out, to come back to, to curl up with. The house is miserably quiet! Somehow all the reasons that forced me to make one of