Well its a funny old world.

 At first I thought ex would not want me to have too much contact with the kids then I get three phone calls in a row saying would I take them to legoland.

Cant quite figure it all out. I suppose its all a question of letting them all work it out themselves and then being there if possible.

Though I do wish I was given more notice, its not that I am complaining but my ex was not a very organsied person to begin with, but a diary would be a useful implement in her life.

Oh well at least spending time with the kids is good so cant complain too

Well today was the first day that my children have seen their dad in nearly 3 months. I kept my 1 year old at home as she was not very well and 7 hrs away from me would have been too much for everyone.

Ok, so everyone is waiting for the fireworks but thankfully there were none. It all seems to have gone smoothly. I handed them over in Tesco Car Park and collected them at the same place. We even agreed to an extra hour on Friday as there is no school.

Hopefully, come Friday my 1 year old will feel better, but I can't honestly not let her go, just for 3 hours. Sadly, she would not even

I have been a bit pro active today going to estate agents,organising one to come to value the house,signed documents,delivered paperwork to solicitors and finding out what was the price of a 2 bed house in my area....I have had no dealings with my wife,since I had suggested joint custody for my daughter...It does not seem to be in my wifes plans.But it is now in mine and for my daughters sake.It can only be better for her as she will have a more balanced view of life.My wife is very strong willed. And normally gets her way.

No rash today, I must be doing something right.

Alan