I'm finally here on my holiday visiting my folks and brother. It's damn hot!

Since I have been away I have now had 3 emails from the EW ( Ex Wife as she likes to sign them) . All been designed to upset me whilst away and everyone ending either ' have a great holiday' or 'make sure the girls are your top priority while you are enjoying your luxury holiday' . She is so bitter about me being here it shines through.

 Every email is to reduce my contact further with my kids. We haven't reached a financial settlement and I think the pressure is getting to her and so she is using her only weapon - my

I have found it quite liberating trawling through the archives of posts on Wiki to try and see how we can make the situation better for my boyfriends children. It seems we are pretty much doing it the right way; we have our blips when emotions run high, but never in front of the children. We have shed tears (quite a few times) and ranted a fair bit in the past at the injustice of it all. We still have to deal with the unknown each and every week, as we never know what the next issue will be.

Christmas is fast approaching and the way the defined court order falls means that between 21st Dec and