Got a letter today from knob head, he got my letter from the solicitor with regards to access for the children and he has agreed to see all 3 every thursday, my eldiest every sunday for football and all 3 every other weekend from fri - sunday.  When i told the kiddies they were so happy, im just so glad he came to his senses before it was to late.

The thing is when you break up with someone after you have spent such a long time with them, they know how to get to you, i mean really get to you.  I know he knows that i can survive this and come out the other side, but he also knows that the way

The man that i thought was such a fantastic father is now officially a 'dead beat dad'. after speaking with him last weekend and offering some contact with the kids on  sat at 6pm until sunday at 6pm the only responce i got was 'what about my social life?'  I get it, he wants to play the feild and have no responcibilities. nice.  On monday i got a visit from the police again, i swear i have never been in trouble with the police - ever, no one i know has had any dealings with them.  He wanted me arrested for harrassing him - this bloke is mad.  luckly the policeman that came, jim, i actually