Hi there, I wonder if anyone can advise me please?

I left the matrimonial home 3 years ago. My stbx has done an amazing job of poisoning my 2 daughters against me. It is 3 years now since I last saw them despite going to Court, (unsuccessfully), to gain access.

During this time I have tried to maintain contact by delivering cards and presents to the MH on an almost weekly basis. On birthdays, Xmas, Easter etc, I will call the house phone, but my ex and the girls all just hang up on me, never saying a word.

Occasionally I get to attend a school play, sports day, etc but otherwise I have no

Well its a funny old world.

 At first I thought ex would not want me to have too much contact with the kids then I get three phone calls in a row saying would I take them to legoland.

Cant quite figure it all out. I suppose its all a question of letting them all work it out themselves and then being there if possible.

Though I do wish I was given more notice, its not that I am complaining but my ex was not a very organsied person to begin with, but a diary would be a useful implement in her life.

Oh well at least spending time with the kids is good so cant complain too

Well today was the first day that my children have seen their dad in nearly 3 months. I kept my 1 year old at home as she was not very well and 7 hrs away from me would have been too much for everyone.

Ok, so everyone is waiting for the fireworks but thankfully there were none. It all seems to have gone smoothly. I handed them over in Tesco Car Park and collected them at the same place. We even agreed to an extra hour on Friday as there is no school.

Hopefully, come Friday my 1 year old will feel better, but I can't honestly not let her go, just for 3 hours. Sadly, she would not even