Because of the kids, I see and speak to my stbx on an almost daily basis. I try my best to keep it at arms length so I text him, but then he calls me. (Note to self, dont answer, but it is a pavlovian response after 8 years of marriage) He collects them every morning for school, the kids are thrilled to see them, he is is usual ''easy-going'' (what a lie!) self, looking for all the world to have no cares. We have parents night this week, youngest sons induction and while I am completely committed to doing the right thing for the kids, in other words having us both involved in their lives, not

Well, I've been trying to talk to my husband since we separated in early Jan. but to no avail. I've written letters, texted countless times and e-mailed. Cried, shouted, cried. I've even offered to talk with a third party of his choice present.We are still living in the marital home. We attended a mediation meeting in Feb. - he discussed his parents more than our daughters. However, all of a sudden, he has made a appointment for a mediation meeting. I found out earlier this is because he has had to pay his solicitor £500 and wants to avoid more cost (which is what I've been saying all

A weird feeling today. Have tried to 'bond' with my husband during the past week through talking, e-mail and text. Tried all three, what next, a carrier pigeon?? I've had a really good week and still hoped that my husband and I would 'remain friends'. However, he seems to now re-write history. Is that normal? I'm slowly losing ALL remaining respect for this man. We've had the house valued x3. He's still adamant he wants 50% of the value, but I will be here with the children. I'm not sure of my rights. I had a phone call from Mediation yesterday - my husband wants us to attend. We've been once