Do I see a light at the end of the tunnel? Dare I take a peep?

I don't want to get carried away but the last few days have been "surprising" for want of a better word.

Ex now wants to mediate and, although I'm still wary, yesterday I received confirmation from the police that her allegations of harassment and computer hacking (not sure where that one comes from! I struggle with Windows XP so I hardly think I could hack anything, except spittle...!) wouldn't even make it to court.

That has taken a huge weight off my shoulders. You hear all these stories of how The Harassment Act (which was really

Sorry for those of you who are concerned for me and my dire situation.

Just to update you that stbx is still taking items from our home to move into his new house on 9th September.

And stbx has taken the internet box and will be cancelling our contract including our email accounts from next week.

Have just heard that the date for the first hearing for the children's arrangements is 27th September.

So much going on,

Petrified of what he might do.

Priority to protect the children.

Will try to blog more sensibly soon.

Thanks for listening and supporting me.

And hope to be back on form when things are

I received a text from the ex this morning at 8am saying my youngest daughter was unwell with a sore throat and tummy, high temeprature (roughly equivalent to the sun's!!) and had insisted on staying at my ex's. Calpol had been given and "maybe" she would come to mine once she felt better. My other daughter was duly dropped off at 9am.

Odd. I can't help feeling this is a further attempt at isolating me from the girls. I spoke to my daughter and she sounded fine. However, I do agree that if she is genuinely unwell then she should not be moved between 2 houses. At least I can still take my other