Just had a call at work from my ex stating she has moved out of the house into rented accomodation nearby and has taken my children. She will drop them back off with me on Friday morning. I have no idea what to do and yet again feel totally lost, confused, stunned, angry, tearful. I now have a place to reside in and no one to reside in it

Questions, questions, questions. That's what you're left with when they leave. Where are they? What are they doing? What are they thinking? Would this have happened if I did X? Or Y? Or Z? Might things be different in the future for us? Under what circumstances? Is the new relationship serious for them? Why exactly did this happen? Such questions are everywhere on this site and most of us are stuck with them (in some form or another) day in and day out. However, when you're sitting on your own at home it's a hell of a lot easier to turn off your phone...now you can't call or text...the

My cheating ex would like me to move out of our residence so she can move on with her life. We currently share our two beautiful children Mon - Thur ex, Fri - Sun me. So, as I think it is inevitable that I will eventually be the one who moves out when I can't stand being in her presence any longer I have been thinking what's best for our children. Thus we now stay at G'ma's house fri - sun after initially just being sat, then sat & sun so my children get used to it.......................... Now here's the rub, my ex who wants me out of the way, which I'm partly doing by easing my children