I sent a msg to the wife telling her that i still loved her and the kids and that i wanted to fight for our relationship and would do anything that it took. All she could say was its over and that she didn't want to see me. This is the first time she has said to me now that its over. Im truly distraught. I only left the house as she asked me to. Little did i realise that i would never be going back and that the police would turn up while my eldest son(7) was still awake and not be able to say goodbye to him :( Emotionally im in absolute tatters. I've never felt like this before

Well below is a copy of an earlier post on the forum. Well what can I say other than I am extremely distraught that I'm here. Its only been 10 days since things started to fall to pieces but outside interference has thrown C4 on the tiny fire and its just got worse. I haven't seen my kids for 10days and spoke to them once quickly and that was that. I've been refused contact of any kind and can't speak to my wife as the police have asked me to stop texting her so I have complied as best i can. Her parents won't even talk amicably with mine and as she has taken the last of my money and

I have decided to start taking some action. I'm eleven months in and it's time to get serious about next steps. I don't want to be married any more. My current lawyer has told me that if my wife wants to leave with the kids there is not much I can do about it. I am going to talk to another lawyer. I think I need to take a stand and tell this new lawyer that I want to make sure that my wife cannot leave the area with the kids. That I do not think that will be in the kids best interests. I really do believe this. So we'll see. This could get ugly and end up in court. But if my kids end up