Hey, how you all doing? My stbx just happened to phone four times last week at 2am ! Followed by sever texts (non offensive) asking why I wouldnt speak to him!! He must be rattled as I texted to ask him his current address so I could send him a writ which was returned as no one signed for it! Now how come it's taken him over 3 years to want to talk about settlement ha! Not that I'm bitter you understand (truth is I really am not). But just wanted to get it off my chest. He apologised (by text) next morning (was obviously on the drink surprise)! Said he would still like to talk though and

Haven't blogged for ages but I have a week off and it is cold & rainy, so here I am, killing time. It's this or chores! The guy I was seeing hasn't worked out as a relationship but we are still mates. With hindsight we should have left it like that from the start but we were getting on so well I think we both read a bit too much into it. Still, no harm done and I know that I would rather be a good friend than a bad lover. I had a look at "plentyoffish" but decided that way is not for me.I find it hard to trust so actually meeting would be out of the question. Some of the photos were a

There is more and more alone time for me and that's ok. I need to remember to take the time to be alone and be ok with that. I tend to get very busy with work and then over schedule myself with other activities. So tonight, I am sitting down and catching up on work and have the baseball game on (Seattle's losing of course). The weekend was very good. I drove six hours and spent time with my aunt in beautiful Kelowna, BC. Went for a gorgeous hike and demolished her at cribbage. On the way back home I dropped in on friends near Vancouver and got to connect with them as well. I am being very