Hi

 

I'm new too all this.  Having a really bad time.  My husband left 4 weeks ago after I had asked him to leave 4 months ago.  I had tried so hard to make it work but with his compulsive gambling, drinking and realationship with girl young enough to be his daughter I had had enough.

When he finally left it was without a word to me or his children (22 and 17).  He moved all his money into a new account and has left me penniless, trying to a pay the huge mortgage and bills.  I am on my knees both emotionally and financially.  I know I asked him to go so why does it hurt so much!!

 He will not

Hi all, new to all this and would love your support. Husband left 11th july - said he was unhappy! Totally out of blue and now in shock.  Have 16 and 15 year old and they are taking it really badly.  Son found out on msn from a friend that his dad had been seen with another woman.  He then had to tell me.  Can' t believe he would lie to his children let alone me.  Have been married for 18 years and together for 21 - I,m 41.  Feel so alone. I confronted him - very difficult.  He met her in April while working and gets on with her!  He's already living with her most of the time. Don't know what

 

 

Hello all my wiki friends

 what would i do if you lot was not here? what would i do if i could not come here, get some advice, support and guidance.

I need your guidance now, i basically dont know what im doing, sounds stupid at 49 with 2 kids, but i dont! i dont really even know where to start i just feel so alone, so sad and im still crying since i found out about my husband's affair in December what is wrong with me why cant i seem to make decisions for myself?  For the first time in my life i really do not know what to do for the best.

Basically what has happened is that as some of you