Well it it is finally here. FINAL HEARING

 Today has dawned bright and sunny.  I hope that it ends that way in my world.

By alot of peoples experiences it has been a relatively short time in reaching this stage, 18 months since split, 12 months since instructing my sols, but it seems like a lifetime.

I thought I would be all over the place, panicking, but feel strangely calm.  I know that I have done all I can and just hope that I can put my case across effectively.  The only thing I am nervous about is being questioned by stbx, but having experienced this in the injunction hearing, I kind of

Ok, So things have got worse if that is possible,

The letter sent nearly a month ago requesting reconciliation has not been responded to. I now need to do something with the courts.

Defend, or defend and cross petition for her affair. It will be a complete breakdown if I do this, why is it that she has the upper hand and no matter what I am going to get stuffed. I need to be able to look myself in the mirror and face my kids - knowing that I tried everything... What to do?

She is not talking or discussing anything, my solicitor thinks that they are waiting and will file for a decree if