solicitors take advantage.

I'm due in court on the 28th for the First Appointment and I'm nervous, anxious and very afraid of seeing the bully for the first time in 6 months. He still has the same devasting affect on my emotions and I'm trully dreading seeing him face to face. How do you learn not to be afraid of what caused you to subjugate your own feelings and life to accomodate their huge ego's and bullying ?

I'm self repping and I will have a Mckenzie friend there. His solicitor wrote to me suggesting that as the First Appointment documents were due on the 14th of August they would

So,

Where was I,

yep I remember, xtb aka cheating wife tries to say that after her 18mth affair (which I found out about) that I have been unreasonable...

So I decide not to petition.... and based on the fact that this would cause a whole load of heartache.

So I decide not to tell Gracie and Joseph... based on the fact that it may impact her relationship with them...

And.

she still believes that after the affair, and fabricating a story that I should....

1. Pay all the court costs

2. Pay 50% of her solicitors fees....

 So at last, after 18months of being bullied and compared to a "utopian male", who