Scumbag arrived at 10.30-after emailing that he would come at 11.00. He said he was just going to take some things out of the shed. I said I would prefer him to start with the things from the house. He then informed me that he didn't have anything in the house, so I reminded him of all the stuff he had been storing in the loft etc.He told me I could dispose of all that, to which I said I wanted him to do the hard work of moving it, as it was his property.

He then informed me that he wouldn't be taking the shed etc as he hadn't got a van. I told him that I was expecting him to take everything,

Had to send the kids off with "them" earlier 2 hrs late I might add, now i'm trying to keep busy and stay positive. Climbed into the ironing and put on some music. Baaaad move!!!! Everthing has just come flooding back and I don't know whether to sit and cry like a baby or rant and rave at  the audacity of their month old love affair with themselves.

It's all about their hppiness and them moving on, not worrying an iota of what it's done to the kids or me.

Now I'm angry with them but in five minutes who knows what I'll feel.

I just want his to

My wife and I have been together 8 years, married 7, happiest times of my life (or so I thought). Then I found out she had an affair with my"best friend", and moved out for six months, leaving me with our 2year old daughter. When that went pear shaped she came back, sorry for the mistake and we were going to make it work, but of course it had been my fault for driving her to him as I wasn't giving her the love and attention she deserves.

Then she went to South Africa to get her son and stayed 3 months and had another affair with some guy down there, 'cause again I'd been negleting her needs,