Another session with the x2b including me virtually begging her to stop all this hurt and try to work things out with me  but she says she has moved on and does not want to be married to me - heard that somewhere before  - but I just can't accept it.

Over the last month she has lost a lot of weight and at the weekend had her hair done (yes I was on kid duty) and now looks just like the stunning woman I married 15 years ago, I feel so gutted and jealous she has the looks status ambition and opportunity to find someone new. Told me tonight that I was probably a better husband than most and

 

I am so angry and need to rant.  I got home shortly after lunch to find an unexpected letter from the Court - the b****ard ex is sueing me for maintenance - he wants a lump sum and monthly payments.  It wasn't enough that he lied to me from the first day we met; married me under false pretences; bullied me for the length of our marriage; tried to turn my family against me; and is currently feeding rumours in my workplace that I am the evil party here.  Note - I divorced him for HIS unreasonable behaviour and he didn't contest it.  Now he wants all my money.  Not that there's a lot, but

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I have, rather disrespectfully, always described dancing with my wife as like “…pushing a wheelbarrow