Yesterday I was so shocked.  Numb and very depressed after my day in court.  There are some great people on here and your comments to my blog, your words of comfort in Chat and PM all helped me so much - thank you to you all.

I got up this morning and thought "right you can either take this lying down and let them win OR you can get up and survive"   I chose the latter.  My girls need me.

I have sought new legal advise today and take comfort in the advise that it is very very unlikely that I will go to prison.  I will be banned for 12 months though, maybe 15 but we'll focus on 12.

I'm accepting

Hi,

Am new to this site and having read alot of the stories they make me very sad, unlike most of the stories about husbands affairs and how they are acting badly,  well I am one of theose husbands who has been labelled a liar , I had an affair online with a girl I have only met 3-4 times on business but my wife found some explicit emails from me to her and thought  I was having an affair in I guess in some ways I was and do not blame my wife one bit As I would of assumed the same.  She has gone to the solicitor yesterday and I'm terrified,  we have a 9 month girl and a 4 year old boy who are

Hi All

Havent blogged in a while.  Situation is now (found out about affair back in Nov, together 22 years, married 1o) H back and forth from home to his flat - wanted us - wanted to be on own, wanted her (although apart from seeing her for a few dates has never really 'gone' to her - has every chance to but lasts a few days (she "scratches an inch" - his words!!!).  

We've now had a few weeks of seeing each other at weekends which has been nice -(trying not to expect perfection as has always been his problem - I, for being the one cheated on, am more pragmatic and realise this will take time -