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I'm new to this blog ... I have been so fed up and came across this site today. Where do I begin? Found out back in Feb that my lovely Husband of 21 yrs has been having an affair. I have two gorgeous Boys. One in his first year at Uni the other is in yr 12 doing AS Levels..great timing!! The boys have no idea we are getting Divorced, I have been living a nightmare double life as under no circumstances did I want their Exams ruined for this yr. I am under no illusion that things are going to get really bad and therfore as their Mum I have protected them. We are going to tell them in late

Got it wrong at the end of last nights blog. He lied to daughter.

Came home today, to letter pushed through the door. My post that had been redirected to him for some strange reason, inc one from our mortgage co. and one from our bank. Apparently scumbag stopped all our standing orders on May 12th inc the one for the mortgage!! Remember him promising to pay the mortgage and life ins? When I voiced my concerns and contacted the mortgage co to double pay, scumbag was hurt by my lack of trust!!

Well once again, after a stressful day at work, I had to start ringing around, trying to salvage what I

They tell me that the day you decide to divorce is the first day of the rest of your life - wrong, wrong, wrong and when it comes im going to celebrate with bells whistles fireworks and champagne. To say I have been waiting for 'the' day for sometime is an understatement, I have been waiting for it since Aug 30th 2006 - why this date, because this is the date i caught my husband with my friend in my mothers garden!! and the slope started and it was meant to go up but since in reality its gone down and down and i've even hit a few milestones since then,

first off losing a few friends (since