What does that mean? My wife says that friends is the best we will be but says that she is too tired to deal with divorce.

Any ideas on what this means?

I am just getting too confused to understand what the message is.

All contributions welcome.

Jules

Got the car through it's MOT at last on the second re-test..dropped my usual garage and found another one.

Somehow the lads eeked out of me that I was now a seperated woman with two children so perhaps they gave me and the car the sympathy vote.

BUT the best bit was when they said "oh you will find someone new without any problems"..I stopped myself giggling like a 19 year old and accepted the compliment.

So the course is out of the way, the cars fit for another year, I still have enough money to live on this month and payday in five days...SO I AM DOING OK...yipee.

Now onto planning

Today was the turning point in the potential devastation of my marriage.

As I may have mentioned before, I am cursed with knowing the login and password to my wife's e-mail address. To be in a situation where she is away in another town and to have discovered that she is living with another man, not checking her e-mail is like putting a heroin addict in a room full of heroin and asking him to not take any.

For the most part, this has been a tool for me to confirm my suspicions or to hope for affirmation of her love for me to be shared with a close friend via e-mail. The past week has