Not blogged awhile and so much to write as so much happens emotionally. Nothing much has changed but the last week has brought home how hard this is for me, how different my and my stbxs experiences are.
I posted in the forums about how to tell the kids we've split as i see that as the very first public step to acknowledging we have split- after a year! Everything else is in private, or with trusted friends.
For me, this week started well, feeling strong with that post and some great replies (and hope to get some more), and keeping strong by visiting wiki - it really does help to hear others