First, I want to answer some comments made in my previous blog entries.

Over analysing… OK, very probably I over analyse on almost all situations. The thing is, when you’re living the bad dream, then it’s so easy to try to work out every situation to its’ last nut and bolt.

So, if I’m bugging you by that, I’m sorry. I do take it on board, and I do know it’s happening, but for me this blog is my therapy. I will refer, even print off, all of this for use later. I need to be precise. Get it right.

Next, I’m coming into the Chat Room soon. Thing is, as a “work-at-home” dad, the kids are around, so I

Oh I know I should be in bed at 2.30am but need to clear my mind of some thoughts before even trying to sleep.

 I joined facebook yesterday, something a friend of mine has been trying to get me to do for a while. OMG I already have 16 friends. I find myself crying tonight though. Not only have people added me as their friends but they have also sent me messages. People that I lost out of my life the day I said "I Do!"

I never realised until now, the amount of friends I said goodbye to and the lifestyle I lost the day I got married. It was almost that quickly. I can recall making excuses even

Dear Blog Reading Friends

I responded to a blog earlier today, written by Drew about how his wife spent too much money and stuff, in my response detailed some of what my life used to be like etc.

I tend to do this, respond to other peoples posts with my own experiences, not sure why, they are not asking me to tell them my story when they post I dont think, maybe it helps to hear that you are not the only one, or for somebody to say that they left their ex, for the same reasons?

Anyway the reason I am saying this, and for the purpose of this blog, is to ask, why and how does it happen, you know,