well peeps ..here i go again..

need to blog as it helps me get it off my chest ..( wish i  had a bigger chest though !!)

hubby rang me yesterday askin if i would sort out all his finances eg.wot he pays out every month ..credit cards and dds etc..

no problem with doin this as we still have  joint finances..and hes workin away all the time so obviously has no time..

rang him last night to tell him they were done and when would he get them.  had a lovely conversation with him,he was so friendly and nice ..couldnt believe it !!!

hes stayin in a caravan with a few of his workmates in sheffield and was

I am sitting watching the rain coming down outside, the sky is a perculiar yellowy grey colour, and there is no way I am leaving the comfort of my house today! Have been to the gym this morning, but since I came back the weather has got progressively worse, so have turned up the heating and am having quiet day in with my kids.

I have spent the first part of half term up in Manchester visiting family. Have had a quiet few days, and had not intended to come back until today, but got a call from solicitor saying that he'd double booked my appt tomorrow, and couldn't make it. Since I have already

Last saturday I went to the essex wiki meet and had a really good time, met some great people, all very open and honest and supportive,just as wikians are online. My thanks to all those who were there, especially BRM.

This last week I've supported my stbx and kids through losing one cat and introducing new kittens to the house. She actually said last night that I had been wonderful. Sounded great .. but it was in the middle of a pointless barney (my fault) about the reasons our marriage has failed, and that lasted until 0430. I know I should be hardened to it, used to it, accepting it, but