Not really sure what i ment to say on this but here we go
I first want to say is it wrong of me to feel so much happier without my ex? Mind you he put me thru eonugh crap to last me a life time. After we split up first time i finally could see what he was doing to me, started to get my life together again we were apart for about a year but he then managed to worm his way back in stupid me! Had him back for about 3 months and he said he had changed yeah how many time must one person hear those words? he managed to drag me down making sure i felt as carp as poss that was just in that short

This is my first week as a separated wife. It has been a long hard week. Basically, what I really want to do is to give my husband a good kicking, but for lots of valid reasons, that isn't a good idea.

His plan is to leave for a flat at the end of May. He seems to not want to tell the kids anything until he goes. But I would like them to know now that he is planning to go. I hate the thought of the kids suffering watching him pack up and go, but as a child of divorced parents myself, and married to another child of divorced parents, I am very aware of the long term damage caused by not being

I have had a minor breakthrough (I think). My stbx tells me that he has accepted that I am going to move on, and he is not objecting to the house valuation next week (yet). He offered to do some painting - but I turned him down, because last time he deliberately messed up to delay things! I have handed back his invoices and told him to think about how HE is going to pay for his fishing trip. I have also suggested that he needs to think about what he is going to do to next, to face his future and try to improve things for himself because only he can do this. He tried to change the topic of