Hiya I've found Wikivorce through a friend in 2008 and since then made many many great and wonderful friends who have helped me through my break up (20 years together) which truly astonished and devastated me. We all have different backgrounds, different paths and experiences, I personally was a very extrovert person but very shy and frightened inside and when I found my husband I thought I had found the answer to why we are here, to love and to be loved. I do believe our childhood sculps us into what we become in later life. Since my marriage breakup I went through some very very dark

Well he has been gone just over a year.  He left, on what was little more than a whim for a creature he had known for about 3 weeks on the Internet and physically met once for 5 minutes.  I was left with our 4 kids, (youngest 2 ms, eldest 7 yrs and 1 with a disability)and   a 14 yr relationship in tatters. They moved straight in together and within 2 months she had changed her name via deed poll to be the same as mine, and 2 months after that she had managed to get herself pregnant (though no-one except my husband is entirely sure who the father is!) She is 42 and left her 4 children and 3rd

I would usually consider myself to be an upbeat kind of person with a positive mental attitude. However, I find myself thinking very negatively today. After the incident on Sunday evening at handover I am just completely worn out. Emotionally drained.

Due to traffic on the motorway coming back from a pre christmas visit to Grandma’s the kids were 9 minutes late back home, one of them crying because they didn’t want to go home (I guess just because he’d had a good time).

I was in the car this time due to the fact that the children would have been another 10 minutes