Her latest line to me was that she does not consider that she had an affair at all. To her she had left the marriage so it cannot be classified as an affair. Also, she was brutally honest all the way through, no cheating or lying for her. She gave me play by play all the way through. I got to watch her fall in love with someone else, and hear all about it, all while battling cancer and feeling the affects of radiation. In her defense she has been so unhappy for so long that something had to pop. I guess me getting cancer at 42 was the catalyst that made her turn to someone else. She told me