Not really sure what i ment to say on this but here we go
I first want to say is it wrong of me to feel so much happier without my ex? Mind you he put me thru eonugh crap to last me a life time. After we split up first time i finally could see what he was doing to me, started to get my life together again we were apart for about a year but he then managed to worm his way back in stupid me! Had him back for about 3 months and he said he had changed yeah how many time must one person hear those words? he managed to drag me down making sure i felt as carp as poss that was just in that short

Hi,

 I have been separated now for 18 months and am due for an FDR hearing in a couple of weeks. I am struggling to come up with a solution to meet my requirements and talk about not being able to see the wood for the trees!

Background - I am now 37 and have been unable to work for some time now due to Rheumatoid Arthritis and spinal problems. I am in receipt of Incapacity Benefit and DLA (low rate care, high rate mobility).

Marriage put me living 250 miles away from family and I now find that I am really struggling to cope alone, I don't need major help all the time but on those occasions that

Now I am almost a year on since the decree nisi. What's been going on?

Well, in September, I called in social services because the ex-wife had beaten up our son during a row over tidying up which escalated (as per usual). Social services, naturally, put him back with his mother and called in an adolescence support team to tackle HIS violent behaviour. I'd taken our son and kept him at my flat until they'd done their assessment. She doesn't deserve to have kids, she's too childish herself.

 In October, the ex- got depressed following the departure of her latest f*ck-buddy back to New Zealand.