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Mar 07
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My storyPosted by happy_at_last in my story |
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Igot married age 22 to the man of my dreams...or so i thought! he seamed uninterested in me after the honeymoon,he started to pick away at me with out me realizing....all i craved from him was the love he,d shown me in the begining,the love i deserve in return for the love i sowed hin everyday......i keept wondering wat i,d done wrong and tried every day to be a good wife..
My daughter came along a year later..i pland her because i was lonely...over the years things got worse,he bacame so abusive and violent..over the years i tried to leave him but he always bullied me into coming back....i was scared of him..i lived on prozac to coape with my life..it was like i lived in this darkness..i was trapped,at one stage i even contenplated suicide but how could i leave my babies...things got worse over the years...i was terrified to leave him...he said he would kill me..
So one day i found the strengh (i dont know where from) and i ran away in wat i was wearing..picked my 2 kids up from school and never looked back..but the worse was yet 2 come..
he stalked me for 2 years,drugged my coffee and plotted my murder...
he recieved a 2 year sentance for his crimes..
You dont realize the strengh u have till you need it...
Lizann x x
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Falk
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| March 07, 2008 | ||
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Liz. Thanks for sharing your story with us. I am not going to go on about what you went thru. What struck me was what you said about strength. Its true you dont know how strong you can be. It amazed me that I endured and did things that I never knew I had the strength for. I always thought I had help from the other side. Did U ever find out why he did this to you? Falk | |
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denmanra
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| March 07, 2008 | ||
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hi, stregnth is a very starnge thing, you think you have it and you dont , but when you find it , where did it come from?. It was always there!. Its a case of when YOU decide to do things than the other person dicatating it for you. The stregnth you have will be far greater than the control they had. Ricky |
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gareth67
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| April 09, 2008 | ||
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Hi there, so glad to hear you and the kids are ok, after all this. Its a shock that he only got 2 years. Keep strong and keep smiling |
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camembert
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| May 24, 2008 | ||
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Blimey HaL, Thank God you got away, makes me count my blessings. I nearly got married at 17 to an absessive boyfriend, I sometimes wonder what would have happened. Now I'm just a bored housewife with too much on her plate, makes my story sound incredibly boring. Well done You for having the strength to be happy at last. Onwards and Upwards Girl, Camembert |
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