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Mar 06
2008
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Today I said NO to a client,that had started to irritate me.I phoned him back and said that I had this gut feeling that I should not work for him.He was I think very taken aback by my call. It is strange that I have never wanted to loose money or work or have my reputation challenged.And yet today I said No and took control. Something has changed in me.I am calm, no rash and in control for maybe the first time ever.
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Fat Boy Getting Slimmer
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| March 16, 2008 | ||
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That sounds good. It is strange that when I went to a counsellor to discuss what my 'issues' were, it was apparent that what I had accepted as normal over the years was actually that I had yielded far more to my wife just to smooth things. After all if there are two answers and both are equally valid then why argue over them? But it has a negative effect because it undermines you bit by bit, and your confidence wains. The only way forward is to realise what you want and set about achieving it. Once you realise that it is not going to ruin your chances of reconciliation (because there aren't any) then you can be more honest and direct. You haven't got to worry about treading on their toes if they are kicking you in the shins. Good Luck (and glad you changed your blog titles away from Dayxx. It sounded too much like Big Brother Diary) FBGS |
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