Well,I have just paid my sol her first payment£600 pounds.It's been worth it as I see it so far.I have had somebody in the back ground looking after my interests.I still have not signed my petition and still waiting for the courts to issue it.

Four months now and not much further forward.

I have also finally agreed to go to mediation, just to see what is on the table.

I seem to have moved on so far from when I started my blogs.I am happy again with my lot.I decided I could not work so hard as I did. For what reason is there? The family unit has gone and there is nobody now able to say that I am

What to say when all is well in your life....?That's the position I'm in now.

My new positive position has made me new friends. Which in turn has given me a better understanding of where I am and where I want to be.

For all those who have suffered by their partners,I can only now say what a lucky escape.

Being and staying positive is like a drug the more you are the more you'll be. Believe in yourself not as a couple, your children will grow up eventually and leave you, the house you have is too big, it is amazing what size you could live in happily and well the money you can't take it with

They say it is always easier to write a sad poem than a happy one....

Well I'm trying....