Feb 28

2008

What Hotel booking?

Posted by JAYNEY in affairs and cheating

amazing just opened our 'mr & mrs' post and guess what? hotel booking confirmation! I just cant stop reading it. He is actually useing Mr & Mrs! I have viewed hotel on website even phoned them to check booking 'superior' room. King size bed. I am gutted. We couldnt go anyway much for 10 years as we were working on business & restoring deralict house. I feel like phoning and cancelling his reservation so he loses deposit and is in shit when he gets there. Can I be that childish. We are living apart & at necree nisi stage. I am running a 7 day week business on my own keeping it together while he books hotels! I should have seen it coming with the new wardrobe/shoes & nights out hes's now enjoying. All while I am defaulting on morgage & car repayments. At last the strenght I need to get angry instead of moping about. I really just dont want to loose faith in ALL men......... its just difficult not too at moment. I need to stop re-reading booking and website for hotel, what has got into me? I am the only one upset here.

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broken1 said:

February 28, 2008
		Been in your shoe's but unlike you Im losing faith in females. My stbx who I still life with told me she was going to London with a Girl friend but I found an email confirmation saying that ''he'' was taking her to Rome for 4 days at a cost of £1400.I didn't say a word about it and you might find this childish but the night before she went I took her passport and driving license and guess what? She called me the next day saying that her friend was ill and they couln't go. Childish maybe, but boy did it make me smile!!! No romatic break and he is £1400 lighter.

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Elizabeth said:

February 28, 2008
		This is to Jayney and Broken1 - I am astounded at the audacity of both your other STBX's - I totally understand your anger and sense of betrayal - and yes "they" say revenge is never a good thing - but boy would I do the same as both you have done (Broken1) and Jayney what you are contemplating!! When people don't want to be with their partner/wife/husband anymore - fine, but that does not give them the right to treat them badly - still it shows them as they really are and just think how unlucky the person they are with now is! Both of you keep telling yourself you deserve better because I am sure you do.

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scottishlady said:

February 28, 2008
		Jayney.... That must have floored you!!!!!! When I found out that my STBX was having an affair... it was through his mobile phone bill....... I then found out the 'lady' in question owned a guest house..... I must have spent hours examining the phone bill..... and was constantly looking at the website for the guesthouse..... what I was looking for, I have no idea..... In the end.... I had to 'give myself a talking to' (for my own sanity)..... I was torturing myself..... and to what ends???? - none.... I can only 'second' what Elizabeth has said...... and I now think that the 'lady' in question is welcome to my stbx..... We ALL deserve consideration when one partner decides that the life they had is no longer what they want..... it is all too often 'one' persons decision.... they seem to forget that the person they leave behind has to come to terms with what has happened.... and that would be so much easier if one was treated with some respect and consideration....

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denmanra said:

February 28, 2008
		hi janey, my wife lied for 2 years about her affiar until his wife rang me at 2 in the morning, she was supposed to be at a leaving do in oxford, but alas she was in his bed!, Taken 4 months of counselling now to come to terms with it all, but getting stronger every day, My few words of advise if its worth anything is try not to over analyse everthing, easier said than done, but keep digging deep for that stregnth, it is there and will grow- ricky

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JAYNEY said:

February 29, 2008
		These kind word are really helping. Great to know Im not the only one out there, which is exactly how I have been feeling. Wait till he gets back and all the stuff he talked me into leaving behind isnt there. Free run for a whole weekend! What have I turned into? I dont recognise myself anymore

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mummybear38 said:

March 01, 2008
		Get the lipstick on Jayney girls night out coming lol - I can feel my horns rising out of my head as I read your blog but I wouldn't be mummybear if I didn't say - stop Jayney don't do it. Let it go, let him go and let Jayney live again.

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