The deed is finally done....

Well, it has been a while coming.  My dear ex wife agreed in March 07  that we would do a 2 year separation by mutual consent divorce and share costs.  This was re-iterated in Mediation in July 07.  Then in December 07  she petitioned me on Unreasonable Behaviour.

 I was an appalling Victorian Dad that didn't give a hoot about his children or the fact that my wife was upset by her weight and was upset that I wouldn't have a vasectomy so she didn't have to remember to take the pill (that's how I have three children BTW) so our sex life was non-existent and I simply worked all the time without a care for anything or anybody.  I was hostile to her friends and family and nobody dare visit the FMH on account of the fact I was always sulking and moody.  How very dare I try to have discussion with her about family or business matters when all the staff had left at midnight, as it was the only time we were alone.

 Well, the detail behind all that got my gander so much that I have sat on the Acknowledgement of Service until last Thurs when I rang the court to ask for another copy.  I have looked for the wretched thing off and on for months.   I think she  'moved' it so certain eyes didn't see it's content about 18 months ago.   I duly filled it all in refuting her claims but accepting the petition to save costs on a cross petititon.  In the postbox by 11:15 for the Saturday collection.

 So what has changed to make me want to do this? I think I have been doing a bit of healing on the quiet and reached a point where I don't really give a fig about the reasons or the truth of the petition. Its a means to an end. Closure

So roll on the Nisi.... And the Absolute....  And a new life.....