Just for the record

Wow, like having children, no one ever prepares you for divorce -not that knowing would ever stop it happening. I have found that trying to control too much in this process is futile and just rolling with the punches then get back on your feet is the only way to survive. Some days the blows are soft, others they are a devasting direct hit, flooring you for a long time, but just get back up and keep going.

I think it is not just the 'ex' but family, friends, the dreaded barrage of creditors, the solicitor, work colleagues, work clients and children all bear down, sometimes it seems